Kindness ranks extremely high with me. If I am NOT part of your crowd (i.e. whatever issue or characteristic oriented crowd that might be like gay or the in group or the out group or Christian or whatever) but you are kind to me I will come hang out with you and love you to pieces and I will be kind back.
Kindness is the number one quality I value the most.
Are you kind? Do you value it? I hope you do!